Friday, November 19, 2010

Shalom, Skeeter

A chapter recently closed in the history of my hometown, Rosedale, Mississippi, when we buried Jerome Levitt “Skeeter” Michael, who as far as I can tell was Rosedale’s last resident of Jewish descent. He was 68.

Jews have been living on the riverside of Bolivar County since the first cotton planters came there. Some early Jewish settlers became cotton planters, themselves, and you can still find a scattering of farmers in the Delta with Jewish lineage.

The rich, deep dirt of the Delta created opportunity and drew people. Skeeter’s own family qualified as pioneers. Much of the Delta’s interior was still swamps, forests and cane breaks when the Michaels came to Rosedale.

Along with operating a retail business, Skeeter's step-grandfather, Isadore Mostkoff, bought and sold furs. Rosedale is situated between the mouths of the Arkansas and White Rivers as they converge on the Mississippi from the Arkansas side, so for anyone in the fur trade it would have been an ideal location at the turn of the last century. Where you find rivers, you find fur.

On occasion, Mr. Mostkoff traveled along the Mississippi and up the Arkansas River to buy pelts from riverfolk. He carried a substantial amount of money on those trips, and his traveling companions were a pair of hardy rivermen, Johnny Mott and Fred Couey. Mr. Couey, himself, was part Indian. They slept on sandbars to make it harder for anyone to sneak up and rob them, as Skeeter recounted the family stories to me a few years back.

Even within my memory, the Michaels still bought a few furs from part-time trappers. But the frontier by then was well in the past, and the Delta was changing in ways that made small town merchants obsolete. After World War II, mechanized farming reduced the need for steady labor. Farms consolidated, which also cut into the population. Skeeter and his father’s half-sister, Louise Mostkoff, made a run at keeping the family’s clothing store open, but their customer base kept shrinking, and with better highways, people drove to Cleveland or Greenville to shop.

The Michaels also had gotten into the pecan business, buying nuts from local folks and selling accumulated loads to brokers. Eventually, Skeeter put most of his time into the pecan trade.

Skeeter was always on the short side, physically speaking, which accounted for his nickname. Like many small men, he was animated, trying to fill up more space than physics would allow. He came naturally to partying in a section of Mississippi that never quite switches off its social life.

Everybody at the funeral had a story about Skeeter that involved either a girl, a late night out, a deck of cards or an Ole Miss football game. Somebody remembered how his friends went into a panic when Skeeter didn’t come back one night from a trip on the river. Search parties were dispatched, only to find that his motor had conked out.

The Delta was ingrained in Skeeter Michael like part of his DNA, and Skeeter’s funeral reflected his own history and personal journey.

First, a priest officiated at a brief service at the town’s tiny Episcopal church. At some point along the line, Skeeter had joined the church. In the first write-through on this, I thought it was simply because Skeeter's first wife was a Baptist, and Anglicanism was a compromise of sorts. But one of Skeeter's relatives told me later that he thought that Skeeter's friend, the late Harry "Brother" Wilson, had led him into the Episcopal faith after the divorce.

After that service, we drove 5 miles south to the cemetery at Beulah where Marshal Klaven, a thoughtful young rabbi from Jackson, said prayers in Hebrew, read scripture, delivered a brief homily and led a throng of Baptists, Catholics and assorted other Gentiles in the 23rd Psalm. He didn’t know Skeeter but spent most of two days in Rosedale hearing stories about him from friends and Skeeter’s wife, Vivia.
 
When Skeeter’s Uncle Toby died a number of years ago, the rabbi in nearby Cleveland officiated at Mr. Michael’s funeral. The rabbi, who was the last one the city would ever have, told one of Skeeter’s cousins that in the 1950s the Cleveland synagogue was the spiritual home to about 125 families, including those in Rosedale. By the mid 1990s, maybe 25 families were connected to it, many of them elderly couples whose children had moved away.

And now Skeeter is gone. He’s buried among the same folks he grew up around. They are all Skeeter’s people, even if their roots trace to other places, other times and other faiths.

At the end of the service, the rabbi invited us to pass by the grave, take a handful of dirt and throw it on the coffin, a traditional way to honor the deceased and to say goodbye.

I walked over to the still-cool pile of dirt. It had been brought up by a backhoe, so you knew the deepest soil was on top. It was loose, silty, good for growing cotton, even from that far down. After a season of drought, it even felt faintly moist. It was the same soil that had drawn so many people to the Delta.

And now the Delta with its rich earth holds Skeeter Michael, and he will belong to it for the ages.

- Owen Taylor

11 comments:

  1. David Michael2:38 PM

    Owen,

    This is Skeeter's brother, David. What a wonderful dedication. You have captured him so well. He loved Rosedale and Rosedale loved him. He will be missed by all. I learned a lot from reading your article. He obviously told you more about my family history than has been passed down to me over the years. Thanks for thinking of him -- the family appreciates it very much.

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  2. Leroy Morganti6:29 PM

    Outstanding insight and writing, Owen.

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  3. BOB WILSON8:32 AM

    ECHOING DAVID IS THE BEST I CAN DO,OWEN YOUR OBITUARY OF SKEETER WAS BOTH ADEQUATE AND ELOQUENT.
    I MUST ADD THAT WHEN HE WAS CONFIRMED HE GOT STAGE FRIGHT,PROBABLY FOR THE ONLY TIME IN HIS LIFE.AND I,AN EPISCOPALIAN ,HAD TO TEACH HIM 'SHEMA YISROYEL ADONOI ELOHANU ADONOI ECHOID'
    REST IN PEACE MY OLD FRIEND

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  4. Florence Provenza11:39 AM

    This well written and well deserved tribute to Skeeter touched my soul and returned me to a time and place that will always be home in my heart...Your story detailed and reflected on the history of what made Skeeter the the good ole boy we all will remember. I am sure the family appreciates your loving and honoring Skeeter as I do. Honestly, Skeeter was part of the heart and soul of the Delta which is mirrored in all of us who were lucky enough to call Delta our home. Thanks friend.

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  5. Anonymous4:19 PM

    What a wonderful commentary. Jerry's well-known wild side was opposed by a soft, sweet side that touched many people. For example, he watched over Mother after Daddy died; checking in on her in bad weather, coming over for a little company, offering to run errands. We Jews in Rosedale didn't think we were any different from anyone else until we went out of town. I'm glad Jerry's burial reflects that comfortable assimilation and shared love of the place. He would probably be happy to have all the bases covered! My condolences to David, Vivia, the whole family and all of us. Nan Dattel Borod

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  6. Anonymous8:10 PM

    I have many fond memories of the Michael family dating to the mid 1950's. My mother, Leo Routh, and I worked for Skeeter's dad in Michael's Department Store in Rosedale. As a teenager I worked for Adolph (Tater) Michael selling clothes, buying pecans and scrap metal, mowing his lawn and caddieing for him weekly at the Rosedale Country Club. I travelled with Tater and Bernice to many golf tournaments in the Delta. I still don't know how I survived the trips home after their partying into the wee hours of the morning after the golf tournaments. I was too young to drive so my life was in their hands.

    I remember that my Aunt Eleanor Johnson would occasionally treat me to a veal cutlet dinner at Michael's Cafe in Rosedale. I also remember selling frog legs to Toby Michael so he could serve them in his cafe.

    I remember that the cash register in Tater's store would come up short on Saturday night after Skeeter had made a visit while his dad was not looking!

    After I graduated from MS State with a degree in engineering I started a 38-year career with the NASA Langley Research Center in Hampton Virginia. The first year that I was living in Hampton I ran into Skeeter in a bar where he was shooting pool. I don't know who was more surprised. Skeeter was stationed at the Ft. Eustis Army Base near where I lived. He was homesick and was glad to see me; he was sure that I could get him off the base for a 3-day pass. Our first trip was a visit to New York City to see the Yankees play and go to the World's Fair. We stayed with his Jewish relatives in New Jersey just outside of the City.

    Skeeter and I were like two fish out of the water in Manhattan on a Saturday night; somehow we survived and I got Skeeter back to his Army Base in time to go to work on Monday morning.

    After a few additional outings Skeeter moved on from Ft. Eustis and we lost contact. I would look him up when I visited my parents who had moved to Stringtown, MS. By then Skeeter was into buying and selling crawfish and pecans. I guess it was in his Jewish blood.

    I have many fond memories of working for Skeeter's dad and am grateful for the opportunities he gave me to earn some much need money.

    I was never into the poker games but I am sure all of Skeeter's poker buddies will miss him. It was not unusual to see cars lining the street near Skeeter's house when the poker games were on.

    Benson Dexter
    RHS Class of '59

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  7. What a wonderful article and thoughtful comments. They reflect the Delta I remember. I grew up on a farm at Malvia Crossroads.

    I thought I would add something to all of this. The article mentioned the White River and Big Island. You guys might enjoy reading "Up the White River Without a Paddle." To see it go to:

    www.alandmary.org

    Near the top of that home page, you will see a vector to the White River article.

    Have fun reading.

    Al Spinks
    Burlington, NC
    aspinks3@triad.rr.com
    www.alandmary.org

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  8. David Michael1:28 PM

    Thanks to all of you who have posted on this wonderful blog. Bob -- even though I'm not very good at going to temple anymore, I still say that Jewish prayer. Nan -- I remember being in Rosedale visiting when Miss Hannah passed away. Growing up was so great in Rosedale and I enjoyed all the times the Michael's (both my family and Toby's), Dattel's, Parker's, and Gourlay's spent together, especially on Hearts night. Benson -- I may be wrong but I'm fairly sure you are the reason that I'm a chemical engineer. Being from Rosedale, I didn't even know what an engineer was. I remember someone asking me on my front porch what I planned to major in at MSU and I said I didn't know. He asked me what I was my best subject at RHS and I said math. He then recommended that I become an engineer. I think that someone was you. I worked for Mobil Oil for 30 years and they gave me a great retirement.

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  9. Anonymous6:04 PM

    Dad would have been very happy! Owen you captured his life and love for Rosedale well. He was loved by many and will be missed

    John michael

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  10. Marilyn Michael Ragan11:15 AM

    I can't tell you how much your article meant to me. It is absolutely wonderful-such a tribute to Jerry and all so true. Tears rolled down my cheeks as I read it and I can't seem to stop crying.

    I truly believe no one can ever leave Rosedale, it was such a special place and will be in our hearts forever.

    Owen, your writing is so well done. Thank you for spending time to share it with us.

    Marilyn Michael Ragan

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  11. Anonymous10:19 AM

    I never knew Skeeter til 1967; therefore, I have no actual memories of his youth. However I have heard enough Rosedale Reminiscing that it seems like I knew him then.
    I will always remember him for his love of Rosedale & his loyalty to its people.
    He was one of the main driving forces who kept the RHS, as well as, Class of 1957 Reunions alive.
    Linda Bassie

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